Daddykhong used to get home around 930pm onwards in the old days. Nowadays he gets home at about 8:55pm!!! despite setting himself a target of 8pm. Well, that’s a story for another day.
We try to rush our dinner and night errands (yes, daddykhong brings back his work to run his night errands - mainly visiting banks to use their wonderful machines). Braedyn knows all the banks now. Maybank is “Tiger Bank”.
The plan is to drop whatever we’re doing at 10pm and make our way home. We expect to get into bed at 11pm to commence our story time and at midnight, it’s lights off. If one of us is up to it, we get up after the kids fall asleep and get some work done in the study. So far, we have been following that schedule pretty well (except for the “waking up to do work” part!).
Braedyn and Shayanne choose the books they want us to read and usually it’s this thick book of short stories which he calls “Horse Book” because his favourite story in the book has a character called “Betsy the Horse”. Shayanne would sit quietly besides Braedyn during story-time. I would read the book, daddykhong would read his old papers (he has a growing pile of newspapers, some from the days when this country used to be ruled by half-baked idiots, to go through).
After story-time, Braedyn will allocate our sleeping positions by saying “Mei Mei sleep there (pointing to the head of the bed), Mummy sleep here (pointing at a spot next to Shayanne), Braedyn sleep Mummy (his grammar needs brushing up), Daddy sleep back (referring to the tail end of the bed)”.
Of course, Daddykhong gets very bored when he’s always at the end of the bed so lately he’s been negotiating with Braedyn to get slotted into the spot next to me with Braedyn taking the end of the bed. It didn’t work initially until 1 day last week, Daddykhong pretended to cry when he didn’t get allocated to the spot next to me. Braedyn then looked worried then quickly said “Daddy sleep mummy. Braedyn sleep back”.
Daddykhong immediately said, “OK, thank you. Lights off” and we all went to bed.
Last Night
Sometimes Shayanne just refuses to sleep. Usually it is not an issue with Braedyn as he goes to bed very tired.
Last night, Shayanne kept playing peekaboo with kor-kor with mummy in-between. She would slowly stand up, give us her cheeky smile and say……..”CHAK!!!”
Braedyn will then laugh and stand up as well. They both sit down and the cycle continues.
After a while, the very tired daddykhong got up, shouted at Braedyn to get to bed, gave Shayanne a spank, only then did she lie down.